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A New Year Mews Letter from the Bahamas

By Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit

Hello friends,
Reporting live from somewhere warm, breezy, and extremely flattering to our whiskers. 🌴😼

Dis New Year, we traded sweaters for sunshine and decided to ring in 2026 the proper way — by following the sun.

Pecan Pie here.
I would like the record to show that I went out on the boat.
Yes. A boat.
Floating. Sparkling. 

I assumed my rightful position as Boat Cat, stretched long, and sunbathed like it was my full-time job (because it is). The breeze ruffled my fur just enough to say, “He summers.” I supervised the water, blinked slowly at the horizon, and considered my reflections on the year ahead. Mostly: more naps. More snacks. Same excellence.

There were Purr-tinies involved — ours, obviously. Served in the sunshine, enjoyed slowly, and followed by an immediate nap. A New Year’s tradition we highly recommend.

Blueberry Biscuit chiming in.
I focused on the art of sunbathing. Strategic angles. Optimal warmth. Maximum relaxation. I rotated sides like a rotisserie chicken of leisure. The Bahamas understood me immediately.

We spent our days doing very important things:
☀️ Sunbathing
🌊 Watching da water sparkle
🍹 Enjoying purr-tinies
😴 Resting between rests

No resolutions.
No pressure.
Just warmth, togetherness, and starting the year exactly how we intend to continue it — present, peaceful, and a little bit spoiled.

From our sunny laps to yours,
Here’s to a New Year filled with soft light, slow mornings, and finding joy wherever the sun lands. 🤍

With love and warm whiskers,
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit 🐾✨

P.S. Pecan Pie would also like it noted that he stepped off the boat at a beach bar, put his paws directly in the sand, and can confirm the vibes were excellent. 🏖️🐾✨

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Should my children be present?

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the most tender and emotional moments a family can share. When it comes to including children in that experience, there is no one-size-fits-all answer — just the needs of your child, your family, and your pet’s comfort.

At Azure Holland, we believe children can be included in this process in a way that is gentle, age-appropriate, and guided with love. When thoughtfully supported, many children gain a deeper understanding of the cycle of life, compassion, and what it means to love and let go.

Here are a few things to consider:

Every Child is Different
You know your child best. Some children may want to be fully present.  Others may prefer to say their goodbyes earlier and be in another room. Both choices are okay. Let them know there is no “right” way — only their way.

Honesty Builds Trust
Using gentle, clear language helps children feel safe and included. Saying things like, “We’re helping Bella pass peacefully so she doesn’t hurt anymore,” is often more comforting than vague or confusing phrases like “put to sleep.” Honest words, paired with emotional support, help children feel secure.

Ritual Can Bring Comfort
Families might light a candle, share stories, draw pictures, or place flowers around their pet. These small acts of love can give children a role in the goodbye — a sense of meaning and connection during a difficult time.

The Home Advantage
One of the beautiful aspects of in-home euthanasia is that it happens in a familiar, safe space. Your child can sit in their favorite chair, cuddle with their pet on the couch, or say goodbye surrounded by love — not in a sterile exam room. Home allows room for softness, and space for tears.

You’re Not Alone
If you’re unsure whether to include your child, we’re here to talk it through with you. Azure Holland and her team have helped thousands of families navigate this decision with compassion and care. We can offer guidance on how to prepare, what to expect, and how to support your child before, during, and after.

Gentle Goodbyes Begin With Loving Choices
Whether your child is by your side or nearby, what matters most is that your pet is surrounded by love — and that your family feels supported in each step. We’re here to hold space for all of you..

Dr. Wallace Sife, Ph.D. writes in his book The Loss of a Pet, “Treat the death of a pet with understanding, love, and care allowing the child to benefit from your example and strength.”