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The 12 Days of Togetherness

By Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit

Holiday rituals don’t have to be big or fancy. From where we sit (usually somewhere soft), dis most meaningful moments are the quiet, familiar ones we share with you.

We thrive on routine, presence, and togetherness. The little traditions you create with us become comforting anchors year after year.

The 12 Days of Togetherness

Simple, heartfelt rituals that make the holidays warmer for pets and people alike.

✨ A Holiday Light Ride

One of our favorite rituals is going to see the Fieldstream Farm Christmas Lights.

Every season, Meowmie bundles us up, turns on da Christmas playlist, and drives us slowly through glowing displays.

Blueberry Biscuit curls into Meowmie’s lap like she’s settling in for a beditime story.
Pecan Pie watching every twinkle, whiskers forward and focused.

The window opens just a crack so we can smell the cold winter air.
The music plays.
The lights dance.                                                            

And the world feels soft and peaceful.

It’s not extravagant. It’s not complicated.

But it’s ours — a shining moment of togetherness.

✨ Day 2: Candlelight Story Night

Turn down the lights, switch on flameless candles, and read a holiday story while we curl up beside you.
We don’t need to understand the words — we feel the calm in your voice.

✨ Day 3: Holiday Music Snuggle Sessions

Soft music, warm laps, no agenda. Even five minutes of just being togetherness can reset everyone.

✨ Day 4: Pet-Friendly Treat Baking Day

While human cookies bake, whip up a simple pet-safe snack. We will gladly volunteer to taste-test.

✨ Day 5: Nightly “Tree Time”

Sit with us by the tree each night.
Lights glowing. Paws tucked. Deep breaths.
Dis is where the season settles in your heart.

✨ Day 6: First Frost Morning Walk

Perfect for dogs and adventure kitties.
A slow sunrise stroll or stroller ride on da first frosty morning — crisp air, new smells, shared wonder.

✨ Day 7: A Yearly “Memory Moment” Photo

Not posed — just a real-life snapshot:
a nap by the tree, a window gaze, a couch cuddle.
A tiny moment that becomes a sweet keepsake.

✨ Day 8: Bedtime Gratitude Ritual

A gentle ear rub or brushing while you think about what you love about us.
We feel every ounce of that love.

✨ Day 9: A Small Gift to Open Together

A simple toy wrapped in tissue paper is more than enough.
It’s the shared excitement that makes it magic.

✨ Day 10: Morning Coffee & Cats

A warm drink, a porch or window, and us by your side before the day speeds up.
A soft start to a bright day.

✨ Day 11: Let Us “Help” With Holiday Cards

If we sit on your envelopes or rest a nose on your arm…
we’re adding our artistic flair. You’re welcome.

✨ Day 12: Starry Night Pause

Step outside with us for a quiet moment under the winter sky.
Bundle up, hold us close, and breathe in dis cold night air together.
The stillness, the stars, the closeness — a perfect final ritual of togetherness.

Why These Moments Matter (From Us)

Holiday magic isn’t hiding in the busiest days or the longest to-do lists.

It’s in the small pauses:
the breath,
the warmth,
the stillness of knowing we’re together.

We don’t need grandeur.
We need presence.
We need you.

The traditions you share with us — big or small — become the memories that glow in your heart long after the season ends.

With love and purrs,

Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit

Paws, Presents & Holiday Traditions

 A Pet-Friendly Guide to the Merriest Season

By Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit (with Meowmie, Dr. Azure Holland)

The holidays at our house start with one sound:
tissue paper. 

As soon as we hear that crinkle, we arrive on the scene — nose-first into the gift wrap container.. Pecan Pie handles ribbon inspection. Blueberry Biscuit is dis head of “quality control,” which mostly means sitting on everything that needs wrapping.

If you share your home with pets, you know we don’t just live in your traditions… We help shape them. Here’s how to keep those sweet moments safe, cozy, and calm for all of us.

1. Pet-Safe Greenery & Holiday Plants

Holiday greenery looks beautiful — but some plants are not our friends.

Plants to Avoid or Place High:

  • Poinsettias – can cause mild tummy upset
  • Holly & Mistletoe – can cause more serious GI issues
  • Amaryllis – can cause vomiting, drooling, tremors
  • Lilies – extremely toxic to cats; even a tiny amount is dangerous

Safer Greenery Options:
✔️ Faux garlands
✔️ Rosemary topiaries
✔️ Pet-safe evergreens placed out of reach
✔️ Simple winter branches or dried oranges

Your home still feels festive, and we stay healthy — a Purr-fect combination.

2. Wrapping Gifts Without Worry

Gift wrapping is… thrilling. So many sounds! So many textures! So many things we think must be toys!

For cats like us:
Ribbon, tinsel, string, and yarn can be very dangerous if swallowed — they can cause serious intestinal problems.

Please:
✔️ Keep them stored securely
✔️ Pick up scraps right away
✔️ Consider fabric ribbons, decorative twine, or simple tissue instead

Pet-safe gift bags mean you still get the “pretty” without the hazards.

(Pecan Pie says: “If it wiggles, I boop it. Plan accordingly.”)

For dogs:
Dogs are gift detectives. They can sniff out food through wrapping paper.

Please keep out from under the tree:

  • Chocolate
  • Sugar-free items with xylitol
  • Raisins, nuts, jerky
  • Food-scented candles or soaps

Store edible gifts higher until it’s time to share them with humans only.

️ 3. Creating a Holiday Zen Space for Pets

We love the excitement… but we also need a break.

Guests. Packages. New smells. Music. Rearranged furniture. It’s a lot for paws and whiskers to process.

That’s where a Holiday Zen Zone comes in — a special, cozy spot where we can retreat, rest, and reset when the festivities feel big.

Build Your Pet’s Holiday Zen Zone:

  • A soft bed or crate in a quiet room
  • A favorite blanket that smells like “home”
  • Fresh water
  • A long-lasting chew or puzzle feeder for dogs
  • A simple toy or scratcher for cats
  • Calming music or white noise
  • Soft or dimmable lighting

For the extra spoiled pets who want to be part of the theme (hi, that’s us), these cozy hideaways make it feel like we’re decorating too — just with more napping.

A holiday scratcher house (like the Target Christmas-themed ones) for us to hide, nap, and scratch

Perfect for:
✔️ Senior pets
✔️ Anxious or noise-sensitive pets
✔️ Pets who need a break during gatherings
✔️ Puppies & kittens who get tired quickly
✔️ Any pet who loves a snuggly hideaway
✔️ The “I deserve my own holiday suite” crowd

A Zen Zone helps us feel grounded and safe — truly one of the best gifts you can give.




Decorate With Us!

Creating a Safe, Cozy Holiday Home for Pets

By Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit (with a little help from Meowmie, Dr. Azure Holland)

Hello, friends! It’s us — Pecan Pie and Blueberry Biscuit.
We are the official holiday decorating supervisors in our house. The holidays begin the moment the storage boxes appear… and so do we.

We know your pets are probably just as curious as we are. So we wanted to share a few tips — from a pet’s-eye view — on how to decorate for da holidays in a way that feels safe, calm, and cozy for everyone.

1. Begin With a Calm, Cozy Environment

Before you hang even one ornament, your pets are already taking it all in. Boxes. Tape. Furniture moving. New smells. It’s a lot.

For cats like us:

  • We love a designated perch nearby — a soft blanket, window seat, or cat tree where we can watch the action unfold..
  • A favorite toy or scratcher helps us redirect our zoomies away from the tree.
  • Let us supervise from a safe distance; we’re very good at su-purr-vision.

For dogs:

  • A long-lasting chew or snuffle mat keeps them happily busy while you rearrange things.
  • Let them stay where they can see you but not be underfoot (or under-tree).
  • Senior or anxious pups may appreciate a quiet, cozy corner.

A calm setup helps us feel safe before the big, sparkly tree even arrives.

2. Bringing the Tree Inside — Without Pets Sneaking Out

When the tree comes through the door? That’s chaos… and we love it. But it’s also the perfect moment for a cat or dog to slip outside.

Here’s how to keep us safe:

Create a Pet “Holding Zone”
Before opening the door, tuck us into a comfy room with:

  • A favorite bed or blanket
  • A familiar toy
  • Maybe a treat puzzle or chew
  • Soft background music

Use Barriers Wisely
A baby gate or exercise pen adds an extra layer of security between us and the open door.

Give Us a Job (Enrichment) Before Tree Time

  • Dogs: snuffle mat, frozen Kong, or chew
  • Cats: a quick play session, lick mat, or our favorite a Churu snack

Tired brains = less interest in door-dashing.

Teamwork Helps
If one human carries the tree and another keeps an eye on us, everyone wins.

Keep ID & Microchips Updated
More visitors, more deliveries, more open doors — updated tags and microchips are an important backup.

When the tree is finally inside and the door is closed, don’t forget to tell us we’ve been dis very good helpers. Treats appreciated.

3. Christmas Tree Safety Once It’s Inside

The tree is up. The room smells different. Everything is new. We notice.

For cats:

  • Please anchor the tree so it doesn’t tip if we investigate.
  • Avoid putting chairs or tables right next to the tree — they become perfect launch pads.
  • If you have a live tree, cover the water or skip additives; we shouldn’t be drinking from it.

For dogs:

  • Many dogs love to sneak sips of tree water — a secure cover is best.
  • Tuck away dangling cords so they’re not chew toys.
  • Sweep up fallen needles often so they don’t get stuck in paws or tummies.

Whether the tree is real or artificial, stability + supervision = happy, safe holidays.

4. Ornament Safety: What to Use & What to Skip

We admit it: shiny, dangly, jingly things are… irresistible and sometimes our paws can’t help but play.

Safer Choices:
✔️ Shatterproof ornaments on lower branches
✔️ Lightweight decorations that won’t hurt if they fall
✔️ Secure hooks that don’t pop off easily

Best to Avoid at Pet Height:
✖️ Tinsel (especially dangerous for cats if swallowed)
✖️ Fragile glass ornaments at tail-level
✖️ Edible ornaments like salt dough or popcorn garlands

Put heirloom and delicate ornaments higher on the tree, where they can sparkle safely out of paw’s reach.

️ 5. General Holiday Décor Safety

Once the tree is done, the rest of the house starts to sparkle too — and we notice all of it.

Flameless Candles, or Real Candles Out of Reach
Real flames are scary (and dangerous around tails, whiskers, and curious noses). Flameless candles give the same cozy glow.

Hide or Secure Electrical Cords
Especially if you live with a puppy or a cat who likes to chew, tucking cords away keeps everyone safe.

Go Easy on Strong Scents
Potpourri, simmer pots, and some essential oils can bother our airways or make us feel sick.

Place Tabletop Décor Out of Reach
If it’s glittery, chewable, or breakable, assume we will investigate. Higher shelves and secure placements help us all enjoy the décor without accidents.

From our paws to yours:
Decorating doesn’t just make things beautiful — it makes your home feel like a purr-fect nest. With a little planning, you can keep it festive and safe… so we can all curl up together and enjoy the glow.

Love,
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit





Fall Enrichment Idea: The Great Outdoor Leaf Box

“Hello, hoomans! It’s us — Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit — here to tell you about our favorite fall activity: the Great Outdoor Leaf Box.

In the fall, the whole yard turns into dis giant crunchy playground.
Crisp leaves, new smells, sparkly sunlight, cool breezes — everything is exciting for kitty noses and whiskers. Exploring outside gives us:
✨ Sniffy-sniff enrichment
✨ Big brave kitty confidence
✨ Warm sunshine & fresh air
✨ A chance to practice our tiny wild cat moves

We love pouncing through leaves, stalking crunchy sounds, and pretending we are forest tigers (but smaller… and cuter). 

And guess what? Enrichment doesn’t have to be fancy — sometimes it’s just stepping outside with your favorite hooman and enjoying the season together.”

Indoor Version — for Our Cozy Couch Lovers:

“But we know not every kitty or pup wants to explore the Great Outdoor Leaf Box. If you prefer to stay warm and snuggly inside, Meowmie can bring dis whole leaf box experience into your home — no breezes, no jackets, no yard patrol needed.”

How to Make an Indoor Leaf Box (Kitty-Approved)

A message from the kitty babies:
“A leaf box is like bringing fall right to your paws. It’s perfect for indoor-only royalty, senior pets, shy babies, or anyone who likes their adventures soft and cozy.”

What You Need:

  • A shallow box or basket
  • Clean, dry leaves (from safe, no-chemical spots)
  • A few favorite toys or treats
  • Optional: a sprinkle of catnip for maximum joy

How to Set It Up (We Tested It Ourselves):

  1. Gather Safe Leaves
    Meowmie should pick only dry, clean leaves — no moldy or stinky ones, please.
  2. Fill the Box Lightly
    Just a few inches! Enough crunch for fun, but not so deep we disappear like tiny woodland creatures.
  3. Add Fun Surprises
    Hide some treats, toys, or a crinkle ball.
    For our doggie friends: a mini chew or scent item works great.
    For cats: catnip or silvervine = yes please.
  4. Let Us Explore
    Put the box somewhere calm. We’ll sniff, dig, crunch, and investigate at our own pace.
  5. Keep It Short & Sweet
    A few minutes is plenty for older or sensitive babies — enrichment shouldn’t feel overwhelming.
  6. Refresh Often
    Swap the leaves every few days to keep things clean and fun.

Why We Love It:

Indoor leaf boxes give pets:
✔ Crunchy, sniffy sensory fun
✔ A safe way to “forage” like a wild cat
✔ Confidence boosts for shy babies
✔ Easy enrichment for older or mobility-limited pets
✔ Cozy seasonal bonding time with our hoomans

“Fall is full of magic,”
— Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit
(Official Leaf Inspectors)

 

Do your kitty babies love the Great Outdoor Leaf Box too?”



How do I know when it is time to put my pet to sleep?

This is one of the hardest questions I get asked.  I have recently told a family to talk to your pet, they will tell you when it is time.  That may sound like strange advice, put it is true.  As pet owners we all know when our pet is trying to tell us something.  I have met with folks that often struggle with this issue and I have used the quality of life scale developed by Dr. Alice Villalobos as a guide to help owners access their pet’s current quality of life.  I have posted Dr. Villalobos scale for you to download and work through.  Please feel free to call me to discuss your pet’s specific situation, I always offer free consultations.  I am honored to serve familes with my mobile vet service in Raleigh, Durham and Chapel Hill.

Quality Of Life worksheet

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