Decorate With Us!

Creating a Safe, Cozy Holiday Home for Pets

By Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit (with a little help from Meowmie, Dr. Azure Holland)

Hello, friends! It’s us — Pecan Pie and Blueberry Biscuit.
We are the official holiday decorating supervisors in our house. The holidays begin the moment the storage boxes appear… and so do we.

We know your pets are probably just as curious as we are. So we wanted to share a few tips — from a pet’s-eye view — on how to decorate for da holidays in a way that feels safe, calm, and cozy for everyone.

1. Begin With a Calm, Cozy Environment

Before you hang even one ornament, your pets are already taking it all in. Boxes. Tape. Furniture moving. New smells. It’s a lot.

For cats like us:

  • We love a designated perch nearby — a soft blanket, window seat, or cat tree where we can watch the action unfold..
  • A favorite toy or scratcher helps us redirect our zoomies away from the tree.
  • Let us supervise from a safe distance; we’re very good at su-purr-vision.

For dogs:

  • A long-lasting chew or snuffle mat keeps them happily busy while you rearrange things.
  • Let them stay where they can see you but not be underfoot (or under-tree).
  • Senior or anxious pups may appreciate a quiet, cozy corner.

A calm setup helps us feel safe before the big, sparkly tree even arrives.

2. Bringing the Tree Inside — Without Pets Sneaking Out

When the tree comes through the door? That’s chaos… and we love it. But it’s also the perfect moment for a cat or dog to slip outside.

Here’s how to keep us safe:

Create a Pet “Holding Zone”
Before opening the door, tuck us into a comfy room with:

  • A favorite bed or blanket
  • A familiar toy
  • Maybe a treat puzzle or chew
  • Soft background music

Use Barriers Wisely
A baby gate or exercise pen adds an extra layer of security between us and the open door.

Give Us a Job (Enrichment) Before Tree Time

  • Dogs: snuffle mat, frozen Kong, or chew
  • Cats: a quick play session, lick mat, or our favorite a Churu snack

Tired brains = less interest in door-dashing.

Teamwork Helps
If one human carries the tree and another keeps an eye on us, everyone wins.

Keep ID & Microchips Updated
More visitors, more deliveries, more open doors — updated tags and microchips are an important backup.

When the tree is finally inside and the door is closed, don’t forget to tell us we’ve been dis very good helpers. Treats appreciated.

3. Christmas Tree Safety Once It’s Inside

The tree is up. The room smells different. Everything is new. We notice.

For cats:

  • Please anchor the tree so it doesn’t tip if we investigate.
  • Avoid putting chairs or tables right next to the tree — they become perfect launch pads.
  • If you have a live tree, cover the water or skip additives; we shouldn’t be drinking from it.

For dogs:

  • Many dogs love to sneak sips of tree water — a secure cover is best.
  • Tuck away dangling cords so they’re not chew toys.
  • Sweep up fallen needles often so they don’t get stuck in paws or tummies.

Whether the tree is real or artificial, stability + supervision = happy, safe holidays.

4. Ornament Safety: What to Use & What to Skip

We admit it: shiny, dangly, jingly things are… irresistible and sometimes our paws can’t help but play.

Safer Choices:
✔️ Shatterproof ornaments on lower branches
✔️ Lightweight decorations that won’t hurt if they fall
✔️ Secure hooks that don’t pop off easily

Best to Avoid at Pet Height:
✖️ Tinsel (especially dangerous for cats if swallowed)
✖️ Fragile glass ornaments at tail-level
✖️ Edible ornaments like salt dough or popcorn garlands

Put heirloom and delicate ornaments higher on the tree, where they can sparkle safely out of paw’s reach.

️ 5. General Holiday Décor Safety

Once the tree is done, the rest of the house starts to sparkle too — and we notice all of it.

Flameless Candles, or Real Candles Out of Reach
Real flames are scary (and dangerous around tails, whiskers, and curious noses). Flameless candles give the same cozy glow.

Hide or Secure Electrical Cords
Especially if you live with a puppy or a cat who likes to chew, tucking cords away keeps everyone safe.

Go Easy on Strong Scents
Potpourri, simmer pots, and some essential oils can bother our airways or make us feel sick.

Place Tabletop Décor Out of Reach
If it’s glittery, chewable, or breakable, assume we will investigate. Higher shelves and secure placements help us all enjoy the décor without accidents.

From our paws to yours:
Decorating doesn’t just make things beautiful — it makes your home feel like a purr-fect nest. With a little planning, you can keep it festive and safe… so we can all curl up together and enjoy the glow.

Love,
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit





Fall Enrichment Idea: The Great Outdoor Leaf Box

“Hello, hoomans! It’s us — Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit — here to tell you about our favorite fall activity: the Great Outdoor Leaf Box.

In the fall, the whole yard turns into dis giant crunchy playground.
Crisp leaves, new smells, sparkly sunlight, cool breezes — everything is exciting for kitty noses and whiskers. Exploring outside gives us:
✨ Sniffy-sniff enrichment
✨ Big brave kitty confidence
✨ Warm sunshine & fresh air
✨ A chance to practice our tiny wild cat moves

We love pouncing through leaves, stalking crunchy sounds, and pretending we are forest tigers (but smaller… and cuter). 

And guess what? Enrichment doesn’t have to be fancy — sometimes it’s just stepping outside with your favorite hooman and enjoying the season together.”

Indoor Version — for Our Cozy Couch Lovers:

“But we know not every kitty or pup wants to explore the Great Outdoor Leaf Box. If you prefer to stay warm and snuggly inside, Meowmie can bring dis whole leaf box experience into your home — no breezes, no jackets, no yard patrol needed.”

How to Make an Indoor Leaf Box (Kitty-Approved)

A message from the kitty babies:
“A leaf box is like bringing fall right to your paws. It’s perfect for indoor-only royalty, senior pets, shy babies, or anyone who likes their adventures soft and cozy.”

What You Need:

  • A shallow box or basket
  • Clean, dry leaves (from safe, no-chemical spots)
  • A few favorite toys or treats
  • Optional: a sprinkle of catnip for maximum joy

How to Set It Up (We Tested It Ourselves):

  1. Gather Safe Leaves
    Meowmie should pick only dry, clean leaves — no moldy or stinky ones, please.
  2. Fill the Box Lightly
    Just a few inches! Enough crunch for fun, but not so deep we disappear like tiny woodland creatures.
  3. Add Fun Surprises
    Hide some treats, toys, or a crinkle ball.
    For our doggie friends: a mini chew or scent item works great.
    For cats: catnip or silvervine = yes please.
  4. Let Us Explore
    Put the box somewhere calm. We’ll sniff, dig, crunch, and investigate at our own pace.
  5. Keep It Short & Sweet
    A few minutes is plenty for older or sensitive babies — enrichment shouldn’t feel overwhelming.
  6. Refresh Often
    Swap the leaves every few days to keep things clean and fun.

Why We Love It:

Indoor leaf boxes give pets:
✔ Crunchy, sniffy sensory fun
✔ A safe way to “forage” like a wild cat
✔ Confidence boosts for shy babies
✔ Easy enrichment for older or mobility-limited pets
✔ Cozy seasonal bonding time with our hoomans

“Fall is full of magic,”
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit
(Official Leaf Inspectors)

 

Do your kitty babies love the Great Outdoor Leaf Box too?”



When Love Guides the Way: Recognizing Pet Cancer and Knowing When It’s Time

Each November during Pet Cancer Awareness Month,

we pause to honor the pets and families who have walked this difficult road. Cancer is something no pet parent ever wants to face, yet it’s more common than many realize — especially as our companions live longer, fuller lives.

At Azure Holland, we’ve helped many families navigate this journey — from the first signs of illness to the most tender goodbye. Understanding what to look for, and when to focus on comfort, can make an major difference in your pet’s quality of life.

 

Recognizing the Subtle Signs:

Cats and dogs can be masters at hiding discomfort. Often, early symptoms of cancer are gentle whispers rather than loud alarms.
Here are some of the signs we encourage families to watch for:

  • Unexplained weight loss or changes in appetite
  • New lumps or bumps, or changes in existing ones
  • Persistent coughing or difficulty breathing
  • Lethargy or decreased interest in play
  • Limping, stiffness, or reluctance to move
  • Changes in bathroom habits
  • Unusual odors, bleeding, or discharge

None of these automatically mean cancer — but they are invitations to check in with your veterinarian. Early detection can sometimes open doors to treatment options or simply give you time to prepare and plan for your pet’s comfort.

Focusing on Quality of Life

A diagnosis of cancer is never just medical — it’s emotional, too. It’s natural to want to “fix” things for the ones we love, but sometimes the most compassionate choice is to shift from curing to caring.

Ask yourself gentle questions:

  • Is my pet still finding joy in their favorite things?
  • Are they eating, purring, wagging, or greeting us as they used to?
  • Are their good days still outnumbering the hard ones?

These reflections help you tune into your pet’s needs — and guide decisions with love rather than fear.

When It’s Time to Say Goodbye

There comes a moment when medical treatment may no longer bring comfort. This is where end-of-life care — hospice and at-home euthanasia — can provide peace and dignity. Saying goodbye in the comfort of home, surrounded by family, allows pets to rest where they feel safest.

At Azure Holland, we believe this transition can be both gentle and sacred. It’s a time to slow down, wrap them in love, and honor every memory made together. Whether it’s a quiet goodbye on the porch, a final car ride, or one last cheeseburger picnic in the backyard — these moments matter.

You Are Not Alone

Facing a pet’s cancer journey can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to walk it alone. Our team is here to guide you — with empathy, clarity, and compassion — from diagnosis to goodbye and beyond.

Because every life deserves dignity.
And every goodbye deserves grace.

 

Pet Quality of Life Guide

If your pet has been diagnosed with cancer and you’re unsure how to move forward,

reach out for an end-of-life consultation.

Together, we’ll explore your options for comfort care and support you in making the decisions that feel right for your family.



Pet Enrichment & Quality of Life

Simple Ways to Make Every Day Better

Featuring Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit — The Camp Kitties

As pet parents, we all want our dogs and cats to live long, joyful lives — full of comfort, curiosity, and connection. “Quality of life” isn’t just about good health or the absence of pain. It’s about creating moments that make tails wag and whiskers twitch.

Recently, my two cats — Pecan Pie and Blueberry Biscuit, affectionately known as the Camp Kitties — joined me on a little camping trip. Watching them explore the great outdoors reminded me how simple enrichment can deeply enhance our pets’ well-being.

1. Enrichment is About Joy, Not Just Toys

Enrichment means offering experiences that engage your pet’s natural instincts — exploring, sniffing, climbing, or simply resting in a new space.

For cats: set up a screened porch tent or window hammock where they can watch birds, listen to crickets, or feel the breeze.

For dogs: vary your walking routes, let them choose the direction sometimes, or hide treats for a little “sniffari.”

At Camp Kitties headquarters (our cozy tent!), Pecan Pie inspected every pinecone while Blueberry Biscuit claimed the softest blanket by the fire. Both were fully present — and that’s what enrichment is: being in the moment.

2. Engage Their Senses

Nature is the world’s best sensory experience.
Smells of pine and earth, the crackle of a fire, the soft rustle of leaves — it’s all enrichment.

At home, try:

  • Scented herbs in a pot (cat-safe ones like rosemary or catnip)
  • For dogs, a rotating “sniff mat” with new smells (lavender, mint, or treats hidden inside)
  • Play gentle sounds of rain or birds for calm days indoors

The Camp Kitties spent hours simply sniffing the breeze — proof that the simplest enrichment can bring the biggest joy.

3. Keep Minds Busy and Hearts Happy

Mental stimulation is as important as physical activity.
Interactive toys, food puzzles, and training games prevent boredom and support emotional health.

Quick ideas:

  • Hide kibble in rolled towels or boxes
  • Create a “camp scavenger hunt” indoors
  • Rotate favorite toys weekly for novelty
  • Teach new cues like “touch” or “spin”

At Camp Kitties HQ, even the zipper pull on the tent became a fascination. When pets problem-solve, their confidence grows — and that’s a beautiful thing to watch.

4. Rest is Enrichment, Too

During our camping trip, I noticed something sweet: between bursts of curiosity, the Camp Kitties curled up and rested deeply.

Sometimes, enrichment means simply giving your pet permission to pause.

Create cozy, safe spaces at home — soft blankets, a sunny window ledge, or a quiet corner free from household noise. Rest helps pets recharge and process all that new stimulation.

5. Quality of Life is Connection

At the heart of it all, enrichment is love in action.
Every cuddle, gentle word, shared adventure, or moment of stillness strengthens the bond we share.

Quality of life isn’t measured in days — it’s measured in the joy within those days.
Whether it’s a car ride, a slow walk, or a cat nap under the stars, our pets remind us: the simple things are the most profound.

From the Camp Kitties’ Corner:

Pecan Pie: “Camping is basically enrichment… with snacks.”

Blueberry Biscuit: “I prefer five-star tent service and a mountain view.”

However you spend your time together — at home or under the stars — know that your love and presence are the best enrichment your pet will ever have.

From the campsite of Dr. Holland and the Camp Kitties

A Meow-lloween Message from Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit

 

(The official feline correspondents for Azure Holland, A Mobile Veterinary Service)

Hello, spooky friends!

It’s your favorite feline duo — Pecan Pie (the wise, fluffy foodie) and Blueberry Biscuit (the mysterious blue queen of sass). Halloween is creeping closer, and while humans are busy decorating with pumpkins and cobwebs, we’re here to make sure your pets stay safe, cozy, and totally un-spooked.

Because trust us — one unexpected “BOO!” and we’ll be under the bed until Thanksgiving.


1. Keep the Treats for the Humans

We know it’s tempting to share a little candy love, but chocolate and artificial sweeteners like xylitol are a serious no-nofor pets. Even small amounts can be dangerous.
Our tip: Stick to pet-safe goodies! Pecan loves a crunchy cat treat, and Biscuit swears by a little pumpkin purée snack.


 2. Watch the Door (and the Monsters Who Knock)

Halloween means doorbells, costumes, and strangers — basically, a cat’s worst nightmare.

Our tip: Give pets a quiet space away from the action. A soft bed, calming music, and maybe a few extra treats will help everyone keep their cool.

If your pet tends to bolt when the door opens, make sure they have up-to-date ID tags and microchips — just in case they decide to join the neighborhood ghost parade.


️ 3. Costume with Care

We’ll admit it — we’ve been known to rock a pumpkin hat or two (for the ‘Gram, obviously). But costumes should never be too tight, restrictive, or itchy.

Our tip: Let your pet try it on early. If they freeze, flop, or give you that look — maybe skip the outfit and go for a festive bow tie or bandana instead.


4. Decorations Can Be Tricky (Literally)

Those flickering candles, string lights, and fake cobwebs are fun until someone (we won’t name names) tries to eat them.

Our tip: Keep décor out of reach, use battery-powered candles, and skip anything with dangling strings that look like toys.


5. Create a Calm Zone

For sensitive pets — especially seniors or those with anxiety — Halloween can feel overwhelming.

Our tip: Create a cozy “safe zone.” Use a familiar blanket, a diffuser with calming pheromones, and maybe even some gentle background noise (our favorite is a “Rainy Cat Nap” playlist).


From Our Porch to Yours

Whether your Halloween plans involve haunted houses or cozy couch cuddles, remember that this night should be fun, not frightful for your furry family.

We’ll be celebrating with a candlelight nap, a warm blanket, and a few pumpkin-flavored cat treats (because obviously, we’re festive).

Stay safe, stay snuggly — and may your night be filled with more treats than tricks!

Love and purrs,
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit
@pecanpie_and_blueberrybiscuit

 

Finding Balance in the Skies and at Home

Self-Care in Veterinary Medicine: Finding Balance in the Skies and at Home

By: Dr. Azure Holland

At the very top of my self-care list is connection with my two therapy cats, Pecan Pie and Lady Blueberry Biscuit. No matter how busy or emotionally heavy the day has been, they always bring me back to center. Cats are remarkable companions in that way—they absorb our energy, sense our moods, and ground us with their quiet presence. Simply sitting with them reminds me to breathe, reset, and let go.

In veterinary medicine, compassion is our calling—but it can also take a toll. Long days, emotional goodbyes, and the physical demands of the work can leave even the most dedicated professionals drained. That’s why self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity.

And this truth isn’t unique to veterinary medicine. Whether you work in healthcare, education, business, or any other demanding profession, self-care is the foundation that allows us to continue showing up with energy, focus, and compassion.

Why Self-Care Matters

  • Prevents Burnout: Taking intentional breaks allows the mind and body to recover, reducing stress and exhaustion.
  • Improves Presence: When we’re rested and centered, we can show up fully for patients, clients, and loved ones.
  • Sustains Compassion: Protecting our own energy prevents compassion fatigue and keeps empathy alive.
  • Models Healthy Balance: When professionals set boundaries and practice self-care, it empowers teams and colleagues to do the same.

Flying as Active Meditation

Alongside time with my cats, one of my other favorite forms of self-care is flying.

When I’m in the cockpit, there’s no space for worrying about what’s for dinner or running through the to-do list. Flying demands full focus. It’s about survival, discipline, and presence.

Pilots have a saying: “Fly the plane.”

It’s a simple yet profound reminder that no matter what distractions or stressors are pulling at you, your first priority is the task at hand. For me, that singular focus becomes a form of active meditation. The hum of the engine, the stretch of horizon, the rhythm of the sky—it’s where I find my balance.

Bringing Self-Care Into Everyday Life

You don’t have to be a pilot or live with therapy cats to find this kind of grounding presence. Here are some simple ways to bring self-care into your daily routine:

  • Take micro-breaks: Step outside, stretch, or breathe deeply—even a few minutes can reset your perspective.
  • Move your body: A walk, yoga, or light exercise helps release tension.
  • Seek connection: Pets, loved ones, or community can restore your spirit.
  • Hold boundaries: Protect your downtime just as seriously as your work commitments.
  • Practice mindful focus: Try an activity that demands your full attention—gardening, painting, cooking—something that keeps you present.

A Final Thought

In caring professions—and in life—it’s easy to pour endlessly into others until we’re empty. But when we protect our own energy and well-being, we’re able to give more freely, more joyfully, and more sustainably.

For me, that means curling up with Pecan Pie and Lady Blueberry Biscuit, or remembering to “fly the plane.”

For you, it may look different—but whatever restores your center, make space for it. Because taking care of yourself is one of the best ways to care for others.

 

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Supporting the companions who carry on

Thoughts on helping dogs and cats grieve the loss of their beloved companion

By Dr. Holland

Just like people, our pets form deep bonds with one another. When a companion passes, the surviving pets may experience their own version of grief—often expressed through changes in behavior, appetite, or routines. At Azure Holland, we believe in holding space for every member of the family, including the furry ones who are still with us.

Whether they shared a bed, a bowl, or just quiet time in the same room, dogs and cats often notice and mourn the absence of a friend. While some pets may seem unaffected, others may become withdrawn, restless, or clingy. All of these responses are valid.

Ways to Support Grieving Pets:

  • Let them say goodbye. When appropriate, allowing the surviving pet to see or sniff their companion after passing may help them understand that their friend is gone.

  • Keep routines as steady as possible. Mealtimes, walks, and bedtime rituals offer a sense of normalcy and comfort.

  • Offer extra connection. Gentle affection, time together, and low-key play can help your pet feel safe and supported.

  • Encourage healthy social time. For some pets, gentle introductions to new animal friends can help restore confidence and curiosity. This might mean visiting a trusted friend’s pet, a quiet dog park during off-peak hours, or enrolling in a relaxed group class. Go slowly, and follow your pet’s lead.

  • Treat them to something special. A favorite snack, a new toy, or a soft new bed can bring small moments of comfort. Just like us, pets appreciate kindness expressed through their love languages—especially tasty ones.

  • Enrichment matters. For cats and dogs alike, mental stimulation—like puzzle feeders, new toys, window watching, or scent walks—can ease anxiety and bring gentle joy back into their days.

  • Watch for changes. A temporary shift in behavior is natural, but if your pet stops eating, seems depressed, or shows signs of distress, your family veterinarian may be able to help.

  • Use calming aids if needed. Pheromone diffusers, gentle supplements, sprays or calming wraps can offer support through the transition.

  • Be patient. Grief has no timeline. Some pets rebound quickly; others may need time, reassurance, and space.

 

 

You’re not alone in this. If you’re navigating the loss of one pet while caring for another, we’re here to help. Please check out this page on our website if you’d like additional resources.

 

Every life matters. Every bond is sacred.

 

If you need additional support or have questions about your pet’s emotional or physical well-being after the loss of a companion, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’re here to help.

 


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A blog from Brad at Paws Remembered Pet Aquamation Service in Knightdale

 A Gentle Farewell for Your Beloved Companion

Losing a pet is one of the most heartbreaking experiences for any pet owner. In such moments, finding a way to honor and cherish the memories of your pet becomes essential. Paws Remembered Pet Aquamation Service offers a compassionate and eco-friendly alternative to traditional cremation, helping you say goodbye to your furry friend with dignity.

 

 

What is Aquamation?

Aquamation, also known as water cremation or alkaline hydrolysis, is a gentle and sustainable process that uses water, low heat, and a small amount of alkali to break down organic materials. Unlike traditional cremation, which uses high heat and can release harmful gases, aquamation is a cleaner, more environmentally responsible option.

During the aquamation process, the pet’s body is placed in a chamber where it is exposed to a mixture of warm water and alkali solution. Over several hours, the body is naturally broken down, leaving behind only bone fragments. These bones are then processed into a fine powder, similar to ashes from cremation, and returned to the pet owner in a keepsake urn.

Why Choose Aquamation?

Aquamation is not only an eco-friendly choice, but it also provides a more gentle way to say farewell to a pet. The process is less traumatic compared to high-heat cremation, ensuring that your pet is treated with the utmost respect and care. Plus, it offers a greener solution, as it uses significantly less energy and produces no harmful emissions.

At Paws Remembered Pet Aquamation Service, we understand the deep bond between pets and their owners. Our team is committed to helping families honor their pets’ lives in a meaningful and respectful manner, making the transition a little easier during such an emotional time.

In a world where sustainability matters more than ever, aquamation offers a beautiful way to give your pet a final rest, all while leaving behind a smaller environmental footprint.



Compassionate care is always about meeting them where they are — and sometimes, that’s on wheels!

By: Dr. Leslie Sanders

When cats lose mobility from injury, illness, or age, their quality of life can suffer. In palliative care, keeping cats comfortable, independent, and engaged is a top priority — and sometimes, a wheelchair (also called a cart) can make all the difference.

Feline wheelchairs are lightweight frames that support a cat’s back end while allowing them to move with their front legs. They reduce pain, prevent pressure sores, and help cats stay active, curious, and emotionally healthy.

Cats with spinal injuries, paralysis, severe arthritis, or degenerative diseases may find new freedom in a wheelchair. It’s not about curing disease — it’s about enriching each day with dignity and movement.

Not every cat is a candidate. Strength, comfort, and willingness matter. A custom fit and gentle training are key to success. Some cats may prefer other mobility supports like slings or padded bedding.

Mooshoo (pictured) lost the use of her hind legs due to a suspected degenerative spinal condition.  Thanks to her cart, she can move around better, improving her quality of life while also bringing joy to her family.

In palliative care, small changes create big moments of happiness. Wheelchairs help cats keep exploring, connecting, and living their fullest lives.

If you think your cat might benefit from a mobility aid, talk to your Veterinarian or schedule a palliative care appointment with us to see if your kitty is a candidate.  

Compassionate care is always about meeting them where they are — and sometimes, that’s on wheels.

Should my children be present?

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the most tender and emotional moments a family can share. When it comes to including children in that experience, there is no one-size-fits-all answer — just the needs of your child, your family, and your pet’s comfort.

At Azure Holland, we believe children can be included in this process in a way that is gentle, age-appropriate, and guided with love. When thoughtfully supported, many children gain a deeper understanding of the cycle of life, compassion, and what it means to love and let go.

Here are a few things to consider:

Every Child is Different
You know your child best. Some children may want to be fully present.  Others may prefer to say their goodbyes earlier and be in another room. Both choices are okay. Let them know there is no “right” way — only their way.

Honesty Builds Trust
Using gentle, clear language helps children feel safe and included. Saying things like, “We’re helping Bella pass peacefully so she doesn’t hurt anymore,” is often more comforting than vague or confusing phrases like “put to sleep.” Honest words, paired with emotional support, help children feel secure.

Ritual Can Bring Comfort
Families might light a candle, share stories, draw pictures, or place flowers around their pet. These small acts of love can give children a role in the goodbye — a sense of meaning and connection during a difficult time.

The Home Advantage
One of the beautiful aspects of in-home euthanasia is that it happens in a familiar, safe space. Your child can sit in their favorite chair, cuddle with their pet on the couch, or say goodbye surrounded by love — not in a sterile exam room. Home allows room for softness, and space for tears.

You’re Not Alone
If you’re unsure whether to include your child, we’re here to talk it through with you. Azure Holland and her team have helped thousands of families navigate this decision with compassion and care. We can offer guidance on how to prepare, what to expect, and how to support your child before, during, and after.

Gentle Goodbyes Begin With Loving Choices
Whether your child is by your side or nearby, what matters most is that your pet is surrounded by love — and that your family feels supported in each step. We’re here to hold space for all of you..

Dr. Wallace Sife, Ph.D. writes in his book The Loss of a Pet, “Treat the death of a pet with understanding, love, and care allowing the child to benefit from your example and strength.”