A Gentle Spring Reminder

A Gentle Spring Reminder: Hidden Toxins in the Yard

Dr. Azure Holland

As the season shifts, a quiet awareness can help keep your pet safe in the places they love most.

As the weather warms, many families begin spending more time outdoors—opening windows, walking barefoot in the grass, and inviting their pets to enjoy the season alongside them.

For many dogs and cats, the yard is a place of comfort, exploration, and routine. But spring also brings subtle environmental changes that are easy to overlook. Some exposures are not dramatic.
They are quiet, everyday interactions—often introduced with the best of intentions.

This is not a reason for alarm.
But it is a reason for awareness.

 

Lawn Treatments & Residue

Fertilizers, herbicides, and pesticides are especially common this time of year.

Even when labeled “pet-safe,” these products can still cause irritation or illness depending on:

  • how recently they were applied
  • how much residue remains
  • how your pet interacts with the space

Dogs who lick their paws after being outside, and cats who groom meticulously, may ingest small amounts without it being obvious.

A gentle, practical rhythm for spring:

  • allow treated areas to fully dry before access
  • wipe paws after time outdoors
  • and for pets who love to roll or lie in the grass, consider gently wiping down their coat with a non-toxic, fragrance-free pet wipe

This is especially helpful for:

  • long-haired pets
  • pets with environmental allergies
  • and those who enjoy full-body contact with the lawn

Plants, Pollen & Sensitivities

Spring plantings can introduce both toxicity risks and allergic responses, which can look different depending on the pet.

Cats:

  • highly sensitive to environmental exposures due to grooming habits
  • may show subtle signs such as decreased appetite, hiding, or quiet behavioral changes

Dogs:

  • more likely to experience allergic reactions from grasses and pollens
  • common signs include:
    • licking or chewing paws
    • red or irritated skin (especially belly, armpits, ears)
    • watery eyes or mild congestion

Shared plant risks (dogs & cats):

  • azaleas
  • tulips and daffodil bulbs
  • sago palms

If your pet tends to graze, dig, or carry plants in their mouth, a quick seasonal scan of your yard can be very helpful.

A Special Note for Cat Families: Lilies

Within the broader category of spring plants, there is one exposure that deserves to be named clearly and with care:

Lilies are extremely toxic to cats.

Even very small exposures can be dangerous, including:

  • brushing against pollen and grooming it off later
  • drinking water from a vase containing lilies
  • chewing a leaf or petal

This is one of the few plant exposures where even minimal contact can lead to severe illness.

Because lilies are so commonly included in:

  • spring bouquets
  • holiday arrangements
  • and well-meaning floral gifts

…it is worth being especially mindful of what enters the home this time of year.

For cat households, the safest approach is simply:
to avoid lilies entirely, both indoors and outdoors.

Insect & Pest Control: A Closer Look

Warmer weather brings increased use of pest control products, often placed in areas pets can easily access.

Common concerns include:

  • slug and snail bait (often flavored and highly toxic)
  • ant and roach baits
  • mosquito yard sprays and foggers
  • flea/tick yard treatments

These may be found:

  • along garden borders
  • near foundations
  • under decks or shaded areas

Some are designed to attract pests—meaning they may also attract pets.

A few thoughtful considerations:

  • avoid placing bait in areas your pet can reach
  • be cautious with shared outdoor spaces (neighbors may be using products you’re unaware of)
  • after professional yard treatments, ask specifically about pet re-entry timing
  • and when possible, ask your lawn or pest control specialist about timing and organic or pet-conscious alternatives

This small step can help align your yard care

with your pet’s safety—without sacrificing effectiveness.

Standing Water, Runoff &

Safer Alternatives

Spring rains often create puddles or areas of runoff that collect:

  • lawn chemicals
  • bacteria
  • organic debris

Dogs are especially drawn to these water sources, even when fresh water is available.

A simple, supportive alternative:
Offer a dedicated outdoor water source for your pet.

This might look like:

  • a clean, shaded water bowl refreshed daily
  • a heavy, tip-resistant dish in a familiar outdoor resting area
  • a designated hydration space during time outside

When pets have access to fresh, appealing water, they are far less likely to seek out puddles or runoff.

A Thoughtful Approach

to Outdoor Time

None of this means your pet should avoid the outdoors.

In fact, time outside—when comfortable and safe—can be deeply enriching.

Instead, the goal is a gentle awareness:

  • noticing what has changed in your environment
  • understanding your pet’s unique sensitivities
  • and supporting their natural behaviors with small, intentional care

Wiping paws.
Gently wiping the coat after rolling in the grass.
Offering clean water.

These are simple acts—but they create a meaningful layer of protection.

Keeping Spring Soft

Spring invites us back into the world—into warmth, light, and connection.

With just a bit of intention, it can remain a season that feels as peaceful and safe as it looks.

And if you ever find yourself unsure—whether something your pet encountered may be concerning—it is always appropriate to reach out.

A quiet question, asked early, can often prevent something more urgent later.



We Notice When Something Feels Different

We may not understand words the way humans do, but we understand change.

We notice when dis house sounds different.
When footsteps don’t arrive where they used to.
When a favorite spot stays empty a little longer than expected.

We notice when meowmie pauses in rooms she once moved through without thinking.
When routines soften.
When the air feels heavier, even though everything looks the same.

Sometimes we wait.
By doors that no longer open.
In places where someone once curled up beside us.
Not because we expect them to return—
but because remembering feels important.

Grief doesn’t always look like sadness.
Sometimes it looks like listening more closely.
Sleeping differently.
Staying nearer than usual.

We feel it too.

And while we don’t rush our feelings, we don’t walk through them alone.
We lean into warmth.
We follow familiar rhythms.
We accept comfort when it’s offered—sunlight on the floor, a gentle hand, a quiet moment shared.

If you’re noticing changes in us after losing a companion, please know dis:
Nothing is wrong.
We’re adjusting, just like you.

Meowmie says that love doesn’t disappear when someone leaves—it changes shape.
We think that’s true.

We’ll carry on together.
One soft moment at a time.

With love,
Pecan Pie & Blueberry Biscuit



Loss and Grief with Dr. Holland

The loss of your dog or cat is one of the hardest things that a pet parent has to navigate.

Throughout this journey of the final life stage, there are an array of emotions that can come up.  I have had to say goodbye to beloved fur babies and the grief has been intense.  Here are some things that have come up in me as I have traveled along the path of grief and loss and to finally finding happiness again.

Is it crazy for this to hurt so much?

No. The grief that I have felt for a beloved pet passing surpasses anything that I have felt for another human in their passing.  Pets are often the center of the home and the focus of our love and attention.  They comfort us and they know us fully, including our habits and secrets.  They are often our “mini-me’s”  and it’s only natural that with a relationship that strong and meaningful that we could have a powerful amount of grief.

Here are the 6 stages of grief and how they may show up in the process of losing a pet: 

  1. Shock and disbelief-  the first responses to the loss of a beloved pet.  This can last anywhere from a few hours to several days.
  2. Anger, alienation and distancing- anger can come up in many forms.  Often there is anger about the disease that took your baby, or at the Dr. that wasn’t able to save them.  Anger when carried to an extreme level can keep you from moving through the healing process and fully experiencing grief.
  3. Denial- having trouble accepting that your fur baby is really gone.  Typically this stage is very quick and is rooted in fantasy.
  4. Guilt- the more that you loved your baby, the more likely you are to experience guilt.  Experiencing guilt on some level is very natural as we rethink the final life stage of your fur baby and the decisions made for care at the end.
  5. Depression- It is normal to feel depression with intense mourning. With the loss of all my babies and in particular my kitty Mantis, the depression was pretty marked.  I would wake up in the morning and ask myself, “Will I ever be happy again?”.  I was already in therapy at the time Mantis passed and I used sessions to process this incredible loss. *If the depression becomes too intense or prolonged than one should seek help from a trained professional
  6. Resolution- a time for spiritual healing.  In this final stage, we move through the grief and are able to hold onto the memories and the love of our beloved while moving forward with life’s activities.

How can I process my feelings?

The most therapeutic thing we can do is lean into our emotions and pain.  In order to get through the other side of grief, we have to feel deeply and sit with the heartbreak and anguish of the loss. Bottling it up and pretending we are ok will only delay the healing process.  I have found it especially helpful to speak with my trusted therapist or friends that are pet people.  Getting the feelings out is the most important part of the healing process.  Crying is one of the most cleansing and cathartic things that we can do for the soul.  Other ways to process and move grief through your body:  exercise, dance, meditation, journaling, etc. Express yourself and try not to hold it in.

I have been lucky to be surrounded by other pet people during my grieving process.  If you don’t have pet people in your inner circle, seek them out.  This type of understanding can be so very helpful in your healing journey.

Some practical suggestions:

Find other sympathetic and supportive people to lean on to get your feelings out in a safe environment.

Allow emotions to flow, don’t bottle them up.

It’s never too late to say something to your beloved deceased pet. Write a letter to them sharing how much you love recounting the special memories that you have.

Dedicate or donate something in your pet’s name.  Knowing that they are helping other fur babies is a way for them to continue on.

Establish new routines at home. Pets, more than anything in our lives, are rooted in our living patterns. Don’t be scared to shake things up!

Hold some sort of private service or memorial for your pet.  This can be as simple or as involved as you wish.

Attend a pet loss or bereavement support group.  Allow yourself to share fully and experience the grief in a safe space.

If/When you are ready to bring a new fur baby into your life, tell them stories of your beloved one who passed.