Finding Balance in the Skies and at Home

Self-Care in Veterinary Medicine: Finding Balance in the Skies and at Home

By: Dr. Azure Holland

At the very top of my self-care list is connection with my two therapy cats, Pecan Pie and Lady Blueberry Biscuit. No matter how busy or emotionally heavy the day has been, they always bring me back to center. Cats are remarkable companions in that way—they absorb our energy, sense our moods, and ground us with their quiet presence. Simply sitting with them reminds me to breathe, reset, and let go.

In veterinary medicine, compassion is our calling—but it can also take a toll. Long days, emotional goodbyes, and the physical demands of the work can leave even the most dedicated professionals drained. That’s why self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity.

And this truth isn’t unique to veterinary medicine. Whether you work in healthcare, education, business, or any other demanding profession, self-care is the foundation that allows us to continue showing up with energy, focus, and compassion.

Why Self-Care Matters

  • Prevents Burnout: Taking intentional breaks allows the mind and body to recover, reducing stress and exhaustion.
  • Improves Presence: When we’re rested and centered, we can show up fully for patients, clients, and loved ones.
  • Sustains Compassion: Protecting our own energy prevents compassion fatigue and keeps empathy alive.
  • Models Healthy Balance: When professionals set boundaries and practice self-care, it empowers teams and colleagues to do the same.

Flying as Active Meditation

Alongside time with my cats, one of my other favorite forms of self-care is flying.

When I’m in the cockpit, there’s no space for worrying about what’s for dinner or running through the to-do list. Flying demands full focus. It’s about survival, discipline, and presence.

Pilots have a saying: “Fly the plane.”

It’s a simple yet profound reminder that no matter what distractions or stressors are pulling at you, your first priority is the task at hand. For me, that singular focus becomes a form of active meditation. The hum of the engine, the stretch of horizon, the rhythm of the sky—it’s where I find my balance.

Bringing Self-Care Into Everyday Life

You don’t have to be a pilot or live with therapy cats to find this kind of grounding presence. Here are some simple ways to bring self-care into your daily routine:

  • Take micro-breaks: Step outside, stretch, or breathe deeply—even a few minutes can reset your perspective.
  • Move your body: A walk, yoga, or light exercise helps release tension.
  • Seek connection: Pets, loved ones, or community can restore your spirit.
  • Hold boundaries: Protect your downtime just as seriously as your work commitments.
  • Practice mindful focus: Try an activity that demands your full attention—gardening, painting, cooking—something that keeps you present.

A Final Thought

In caring professions—and in life—it’s easy to pour endlessly into others until we’re empty. But when we protect our own energy and well-being, we’re able to give more freely, more joyfully, and more sustainably.

For me, that means curling up with Pecan Pie and Lady Blueberry Biscuit, or remembering to “fly the plane.”

For you, it may look different—but whatever restores your center, make space for it. Because taking care of yourself is one of the best ways to care for others.

 

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Supporting the companions who carry on

Thoughts on helping dogs and cats grieve the loss of their beloved companion

By Dr. Holland

Just like people, our pets form deep bonds with one another. When a companion passes, the surviving pets may experience their own version of grief—often expressed through changes in behavior, appetite, or routines. At Azure Holland, we believe in holding space for every member of the family, including the furry ones who are still with us.

Whether they shared a bed, a bowl, or just quiet time in the same room, dogs and cats often notice and mourn the absence of a friend. While some pets may seem unaffected, others may become withdrawn, restless, or clingy. All of these responses are valid.

Ways to Support Grieving Pets:

  • Let them say goodbye. When appropriate, allowing the surviving pet to see or sniff their companion after passing may help them understand that their friend is gone.

  • Keep routines as steady as possible. Mealtimes, walks, and bedtime rituals offer a sense of normalcy and comfort.

  • Offer extra connection. Gentle affection, time together, and low-key play can help your pet feel safe and supported.

  • Encourage healthy social time. For some pets, gentle introductions to new animal friends can help restore confidence and curiosity. This might mean visiting a trusted friend’s pet, a quiet dog park during off-peak hours, or enrolling in a relaxed group class. Go slowly, and follow your pet’s lead.

  • Treat them to something special. A favorite snack, a new toy, or a soft new bed can bring small moments of comfort. Just like us, pets appreciate kindness expressed through their love languages—especially tasty ones.

  • Enrichment matters. For cats and dogs alike, mental stimulation—like puzzle feeders, new toys, window watching, or scent walks—can ease anxiety and bring gentle joy back into their days.

  • Watch for changes. A temporary shift in behavior is natural, but if your pet stops eating, seems depressed, or shows signs of distress, your family veterinarian may be able to help.

  • Use calming aids if needed. Pheromone diffusers, gentle supplements, sprays or calming wraps can offer support through the transition.

  • Be patient. Grief has no timeline. Some pets rebound quickly; others may need time, reassurance, and space.

 

 

You’re not alone in this. If you’re navigating the loss of one pet while caring for another, we’re here to help. Please check out this page on our website if you’d like additional resources.

 

Every life matters. Every bond is sacred.

 

If you need additional support or have questions about your pet’s emotional or physical well-being after the loss of a companion, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’re here to help.

 


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